{"id":356,"date":"2009-12-04T06:20:40","date_gmt":"2009-12-04T06:20:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.codru.org\/?p=356"},"modified":"2009-12-04T06:20:40","modified_gmt":"2009-12-04T06:20:40","slug":"despre-dragoste","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.codru.org\/?p=356","title":{"rendered":"Despre dragoste"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 <span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial\"><font color=\"#000000\">\u00a0\u00a0 \u00cen realitate, ce e dragostea? Nu e ceva care vine de la un b\u0103rbat sau de la o femeie. Dragostea e o energie cosmic\u0103 care este r\u0103sp\u00e2ndit\u0103 peste tot \u00een univers. Putem g\u0103si dragostea \u00een p\u0103m\u00e2nt, ap\u0103, aer, soare, stele\u2026 O putem g\u0103si \u00een pietre, plante, animale\u2026 \u015ei o putem g\u0103si de asemenea \u00een oameni, desigur, dar tocmai, nu \u00een exclusivitate. De aceea nu trebuie s\u0103 v\u0103 sim\u0163i\u0163i priva\u0163i de dragoste dac\u0103 nu ave\u0163i un b\u0103iat sau o fat\u0103 pe care s\u0103 \u00eei \u0163ine\u0163i \u00een bra\u0163e. Nu vede\u0163i c\u0103 tocmai pe voi \u00een\u015fiv\u0103 v\u0103 face\u0163i neferici\u0163i cu concep\u0163iile voastre at\u00e2t de limitate? Nu corpul, nu carnea v\u0103 va da dragostea, pentru c\u0103 dragostea nu se afl\u0103 acolo. Dragostea poate s\u0103 se serveasc\u0103 de corpul fizic ca suport, dar ea este \u00een alt\u0103 parte: ea e peste tot, e o lumin\u0103, un nectar, o ambrozie care umple spa\u0163iul.<\/font><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial\"><font color=\"#000000\"><span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>De ce nu v\u0103 observa\u0163i pentru a trage concluzii din experien\u0163ele pe care le-a\u0163i f\u0103cut deja? A\u0163i iubit un b\u0103iat sau o fat\u0103, \u015fi \u00een timpul primelor momente ale acestei iubiri, a\u0163i tr\u0103it \u00een \u00eenc\u00e2ntare. G\u00e2ndul numai c\u0103 cel\u0103lalt exist\u0103 \u015fi poate \u00eel (o) puteai z\u0103ri pe strad\u0103 sau \u00een alt\u0103 parte era suficient pentru a putea tr\u0103i \u00een poezie, muzic\u0103. \u00centr-o zi a\u0163i reu\u015fit s\u0103 ob\u0163ine\u0163i un obiect pe care l-a atins sau care i-a apar\u0163inut, \u015fi chiar dac\u0103 era un obiect neimportant, era pentru voi comoara cea mai pre\u0163ioas\u0103 din lume, pentru c\u0103 era plin cu efluviile acelei fiin\u0163e pe care o iubea\u0163i, era ca un talisman pentru voi. \u015ei apoi, \u00eencetul cu \u00eencetul, a\u0163i \u00eenceput s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2lni\u0163i, lucrurile \u015fi-au urmat cursul\u2026.\u201dnormal\u201d, cum se spune. \u015ei \u00een acel moment, cu siguran\u0163\u0103 a\u0163i gustat alte pl\u0103ceri, alte bucurii, dar a\u0163i pierdut tot ceea ce f\u0103cea magia primelor \u00eent\u00e2lniri. \u015ei adesea, cum se sf\u00e2r\u015fesc acestea? Prin ne\u00een\u0163elegeri, afronturi, separ\u0103ri\u2026<\/font><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial\"><font color=\"#000000\"><span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>Pentru a v\u0103 p\u0103stra dragostea, ar trebui \u00een\u0163eles c\u0103 ea nu rezid\u0103 \u00een posesiunea fizic\u0103 ale acelei fiin\u0163e, ci \u00een ceva subtil, care, prin intermediul ei, v\u0103 lega la \u00eentregul univers, v\u0103 lega la frumuse\u0163ea florilor, p\u0103durilor, izvoarelor, soarelui, constela\u0163iilor. Voind s\u0103 suprima\u0163i distan\u0163a care v\u0103 separa de fiin\u0163a iubit\u0103, a\u0163i pierdut \u00eencet \u00eencet toat\u0103 aceast\u0103 lume subtil\u0103, \u015fi nu a r\u0103mas dec\u00e2t partea material\u0103, prozaic\u0103.<\/font><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 11pt; font-family: Arial\"><font color=\"#000000\"><span>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/span>Dac\u0103 vre\u0163i s\u0103 v\u0103 p\u0103stra\u0163i dragostea voastr\u0103, nu v\u0103 gr\u0103bi\u0163i s\u0103 v\u0103 apropia\u0163i fizic, pentru c\u0103 odat\u0103 trecute marile v\u00e2ltori, v\u0103 ve\u0163i l\u0103sa repede \u015fi ve\u0163i \u00eencepe s\u0103 vede\u0163i ap\u0103r\u00e2nd p\u0103r\u0163ile mai rele ale unuia \u015fi ale altuia. Pentru a proteja inspira\u0163ia voastr\u0103, \u00eencerca\u0163i s\u0103 p\u0103stra\u0163i o anumit\u0103 distan\u0163\u0103. Cei ce vor de \u00eendat\u0103 s\u0103 cunoasc\u0103 totul, s\u0103 guste totul, nu vor mai sim\u0163i curiozitate unul fa\u0163\u0103 de cel\u0103lalt, nu vor mai dori nici chiar s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2lneasc\u0103, pentru c\u0103 au v\u0103zut prea mult, au gustat prea mult, au m\u00e2ncat prea mult, sunt s\u0103tui \u015fi iat\u0103, s-a terminat, dragostea lor s-a terminat. Aceast\u0103 dragoste care le aducea toate binecuv\u00e2nt\u0103rile, care le aducea cerul, au sacrificat-o pentru c\u00e2teva minute de pl\u0103cere! De ce nu \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 fie mai vigilen\u0163i? De ce se priveaz\u0103 ei a\u015fa de repede de aceste senza\u0163ii at\u00e2t de subtile \u015fi poetice? Se spune c\u0103 e prea frumos \u015fi c\u0103 ei sunt gr\u0103bi\u0163i s\u0103 termine cu poezia, cu frumuse\u0163ea.<\/font><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 11pt\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\" color=\"#000000\">\u00a0<\/font><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0 \u00cen realitate, ce e dragostea? Nu e ceva care vine de la un b\u0103rbat sau de la o femeie. Dragostea e o energie cosmic\u0103 care este r\u0103sp\u00e2ndit\u0103 peste tot \u00een univers. Putem g\u0103si dragostea \u00een p\u0103m\u00e2nt, ap\u0103, aer, soare, stele\u2026 O putem g\u0103si \u00een pietre, plante, animale\u2026 \u015ei o putem g\u0103si de asemenea&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"http:\/\/www.codru.org\/?p=356\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Despre dragoste<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-356","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.codru.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/356","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.codru.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.codru.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.codru.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.codru.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=356"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.codru.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/356\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.codru.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=356"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.codru.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=356"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.codru.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=356"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}